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| Veteran Heritage Status Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Victoria, Australia
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| Victim of school bullying a web hero | The Daily Telegraph Quote:
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| Moderator - Previously known as JayD Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: TreeWorld, Sydney Australia
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I just watched the video and the poor bloke copped three punches in the face before he did a thing...the agressor got what he came looking for, but it did not turn out the way he hoped ! SUCKO !
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| Admin - Owner Palm & Tree Services in Brisbane Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Brisbane
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| Fighting back is acceptable and necessary. Where you are out-sized or outnumbered then weapons to equal the odds are acceptable IMHO. Waiting for authorities in these matters is a disgusting joke, especially from schools. They just go into "cover their ass" mode, as seen in this case. Children and the rest of society witness daily (thanks to News) authorities meeting force with force, yet in their own personal moment they are expected to decline universally acceptable displays of "protection". Everyone has the right to be left the hell alone, you intrude into that right then face the music. ![]() Where the moment renders you incapable of fighting back (severely out numbered etc) and then revenging the act especially with stealth is another issue, considered vigilante. But what is one to do, authorities for most parts are absolutely useless.
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I feel sorry for Casey, damm the media, his name should never have hit the news. It should have been withheld, this will affect him for some time. As far as bullies go, you can only take so much bullying before you lash out, I know from experiance. Problem is when you lash out it often is more aggresive than you would normally be as a person. Looked to me, that the boy bullying thought he had an easy mark, soooo wrong. ![]() Also think that from the behaviour of Casey he is normally a placid kid, he really took a lot of punishment before he defended himself. Ultimately a person should have the right to defend themselves. |
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The outcome is .... no justice. In a society that demands justice the way the education dept handle things removes justice, building resentment toward authority for victims .... no wonder youth crime and violence is getting worse as we have a young unchecked society of thugs getting away with it.
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How many useless lazy assed parents watch it all happen and shrug their shoulders, "ah kids, you know what they're like". Ever challenged one of those parents at a park where their prick kid is bullying others whilst the parents watch on? It's interesting I assure you. I often say out loud, "crikey's who's kid is that and why isn't the parent doing anything about it" .......... ........ watch the sparks fly from the Neanderthals.
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Sorry, if someone hits me,or even tries,they are done for.If i hit someone with aggressively, they aren't likely to just walk away.
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| Moderator - Previously known as JayD Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: TreeWorld, Sydney Australia
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OR as Cassius Clay said, "float like a butterfly and sting like a bee "
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There was lots of disapline at school in the time I went, including the cane and being expelled, parents disaplined their kids on average, it didn't stop the bullies at lunch time and after school. I went to private school, then left it to go to public with moving, my daughter went to public school, socio demagraphics have little to do with it. Problem is there are a lot of aggresive feral parents out there too, I've seen parents banned from primary school and high school here locally. What hope do their children have. I doubt that education would change them. So the problem will remain. Main thing is to teach your children respect for others when due, morals and how to think for themselves. I don't know the answer to the bigger picture, but punishing your children isn't nessacary when you have raised them to consider consequences of actions and what is right, leading by example and having lots of discussions, well I've found that to be the case. The only punishment I've done is ground her a couple of times. I'm pretty proud of how my daughter has turned out. I think that confronted with aggravated violence you have the right to defend yourself. I doubt that little punk will be bullying Casey again. I feel sad for Casey though, this will stay with him for a while, yeah he needs some moral support. Quote:
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