I agree he comes across as one sick puppy,our control over our kids....less an less as they mature,if you push to hard they rebel..if you dont have a go an their infulenced by others..christ anything could eventuate,I think you need to plant the seed and make them think it's their idea,and go from there,good luck..sorting them out..so far mine all have been like shooting a hand full of arrows into to air..all have their own direction,but with all the dramas and happiness they bring they remain yours!
