I want to thank you all for your help. For those intersted I am posting an update. I am hoping it is on the right track. It certainly looks alot better. Like I said before I decided to try a little TLC and not dont a bunch more money into it. So basically all I have done is hammered a bunch of small holes around the drip line and dropped fertilizer in there. I have watered those holes several times a day for the past week.
Here are some pics...
Here you can see that these are the two trunks thats are "sick". One is has lots of new growth the other has a little. And also the "stain" on the base. I know someone asked if it had that, now that the bark has come off I can see it 
I know alot of people think the tree is tosat but Im not ready to give up yet!!